1. Sex starts in the mind
You have to involve yourself mentally. Mentally participating before sex or as soon as you see it's about to go down is important.
2. Planned or Scheduled sex, don't forget Foreplay
Many don't know that foreplay can start at anytime. Ex. flirting with each other all day, role playing throughout the day, cooking or walking through the house naked, a light touch as your mate walks by, etc.
3. Focus on satisfying your mate
YOU HAVE TO, YOU HAVE TO, know what's satisfying to your mate. Conversate about what you both like.
Most women have never experienced an orgasm through penetration. Men you have to figure out how to satisfy her. This can be you simply taking a break to relieve some of the intensity and throbbing. If a woman know she's likely going to satisfied, she'll be more likely to want more sex.
4. Try something different
Have you did it in the car, in the park, on the back porch, against the wall, add SEX TOYS, phone sex, wearing lingerie to bed nightly? It can't be sex as usual. You have to keep it spicy.
5. Incorporate date nights
Date nights can be another way for you to be more attractive to one another. COMMUNICATION is key. Have fun, enjoy each other and by the time you get home, clothes are off!
***DO YOU KNOW YOUR BODY?
Get to know your body:
Men, how do you like when a women rubs your chest, suck on your nipples, suck your balls, wrap their arms around you during sex, kiss your neck?
Ladies, how do you like when a man suck or rub your titties, suck your neck, hold you during sex, lick your ass as they eat your pussy, kiss your hips?